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These Positions Will Make It Seem Like You're Working With More Than You Really Are.
A lot of guys have hang-ups about size – no matter where we may in reality sit on the “what is average” size equation. Not having a large penis is nothing to feel insecure about: The old adage is true, it’s not what size you have, it’s how you use it.
Still, if you do feel you have a smaller than average penis, there’s absolutely some positions and techniques that can help ensure you both have more pleasure.
“Since the average penis size is around 5 inches fully erect, it's tough to use the terms "bigger" penis and "smaller" penis, plus I find it can add to the insecurities guys are dealing with on a regular basis. The truth is, many women are more satisfied with an "average"-size cock anyways, and remember... Sex isn't always just penetrative, i.e., *insert tab A into slot B,” says adult performer and sex educator Jessica Drake, star ofJessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex: Foreplay. That being said, says Drake, if you want to increase friction and tightness, try positions where the woman has her legs together.
Hitting Her Sweet Spot
Before we get into penis size, it’s important to note that women experience two main types of orgasms: the more common clitoral orgasm and the elusive G-spot orgasm. “The clitoris is located outside of the vagina (no penis necessary), and your G-Spot is nestled just a few inches inside. This means you don’t really need a massive member to hit her sweet spots. Pleasing your partner is really about picking sex positions that makes optimal use of what you’ve got,” says sexologist Dr. Emily Morse, host of the Sex With Emily podcast, author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight.
1. Modify Missionary
Skip positions like missionary, says Morse, which hinder your thrusting abilities and make it difficult for her to feel you as deeply as you both would like. “If you do go with a missionary-style position (which does provide the clitoral stimulation necessary to help most women reach orgasm), try lying flat against your partner pelvis-to-pelvis and scoot up a couple inches before penetrating her and rock up and down (instead of in and out),” says Morse.
“This move is called the Coital Alignment Technique (also known as the CAT position or “Perfect Position”). When employing this technique, the base of your penis will directly stimulate her clitoris making it easier for her to orgasm and making the size of your penis a non-issue,” says Morse.
2. Doggy Style
Another orgasmic option: the popular doggy style! “This position allows for some deeper penetration, plus it will enable your penis to rub against her G-spot and gives you direct access to her clitoris,” says Morse. From here, you can easily massage her clit using your hand or with a hand-held vibrator (like the JimmyJane Form 2).
3. Swivel And Grind
Whichever position you choose, remember that “in and out” is not the optimal motion for her pleasure. “Instead, try using a grinding motion with your hips or even a “swivel and screw” type of movement. These will make the most of your equipment and hit all of her pleasure spots,” says Morse. Another trick is to bring in some bedroom furniture, like the Liberator wedge, which can set you up in positions that allow for the deepest penetration possible. “The wedge is built to perfectly angle you in many popular positions for some targeted G-spot stimulation and extra-deep intercourse,” says Morse.
4. Girl On Top
Another great one to try is the woman-on-top position. “Being on top puts the perfect amount of pressure on her clitoris and allows her to control depth and angle of penetration. It also make it easier for her to move in a way that feels pleasurable for her, and will give your penis much better access to her G-spot (which, as I mentioned, is actually located just a couple inches inside her vagina),” says Morse.
5. Spins On Doggy Style
“My personal favorite is something I call Special Doggy. I'm on my stomach, totally flat on a bed with my legs squeezed together. The man enters from behind and thrusts not only in, but up,” says Drake.
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